6.01.2009


make your own bed skirt
and forget to cut off
the loose fringe



Carouschka's
home in sweden
ph: martin löf


PS:

I want to read a poem
for my sister's wedding

I'm looking for something real.
not necessarily about love.

something quiet.
on nature, life, water
I don't know.
simple.



any ideas?

37 comments:

  1. Mary Oliver or Denise Levertov write wonderful quite poems on nature, life, water....

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  2. i think rainer maria rilke is a great poet and exactly what you are looking for. his poems are about nature, life, friendship, the ocean etc. have a look!
    by the way, great blog! i love this purity a lot!

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  3. let me think about it.

    love poem?

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  4. oh i love thsi place...such a great space and atmosphere...

    oh may i be so bold as to suggest: Pablo Neruda: Me Gustos Cuando Callas (Poema 15)...

    http://students.cs.byu.edu/~hit/neruda_15.htm

    or just any other poem by him...

    what a lovely thought to read a poem at a wedding.

    nancy

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  5. A version of this poem was featured in the credits for the film Never Cry Wolf.

    Little SongAnd I think over again
    My small adventures
    When with a shore wind I drifted out
    In my kayak
    And I thought I was in danger.

    My fears,
    Those small ones
    That I thought so big,
    For all the vital things
    I had to get and to reach.

    And yet, there is only
    One great thing,
    The only thing.
    To live to see in huts and on journeys
    The great day that dawns,
    And the little light that fills the world.

    Mackenzie Eskimo (Orpingalik?)

    recorded by Knud Rasmussen, 1932, a report of the Fifth Thule
    Expedition to the Arctic in 1923
    reproduced in:
    Colombo, John Robert, ed. Songs of the Great Land, Oberon Press, Ottawa, 1989, p.98

    Anyhow...
    The version used in the film is shorter and leaves out some of the arctic-specific imagery:

    "I think over again my small adventures
    My fears, those small ones that seemed so big
    For all the vital things I had to get and reach
    And yet there is only one great thing
    The only thing
    To live to see the great day that dawns
    And the light that fills the world."

    It could be used as it, or rewritten in the second person, in which it would read as more of a blessing.

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  6. How about 'Snow' by Louis MacNeice?
    Or something by Wallace Stevens.

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  7. I second Wallace Stevens.

    Also, I love your blog.

    -Alex

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  8. how about "since feeling is first" by e.e. cummings?

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  9. Hi, my name is vanesa and i live in argentina. i teach literature and love english poetry (and read your blog daily, also). hope you like this:

    To-day these have been lovely things
    I never saw before;
    sunlight through a jar of marmalade;
    a blue gate;
    a rainbow
    in soapsuds on dishwater;
    candlelight on butter;
    the crinkled smile of a little girl
    who had new shoes with tassels;
    a chickadee on a thorn-apple;
    empurpled mud under a willow,
    where white geese slept;
    white ruffled curtains sifting moonlight
    on the scrubbed kitchen floor;
    the under side of a white-oak leaf;
    ruts in the road at sunset;
    an egg yolk in a blue bowl.

    My love kissed my eyes last night.
    (May Thielgaard Watts)

    My heart is like a singing bird
    whose nest is in a watered shoot;
    my heart is like an apple tree
    whose boughs are bent with thickset fruit;
    my heart is like a rainblow shell
    that paddles in a halcyon sea;
    my heart is gladder than all these
    because my love is come to me.

    Raise me a dais of silk and down;
    hang it with wair and purple dyes;
    carve it in doves and pomegranates,
    and peacocks whith a hundred eyes;
    work it in gold and silver grapes,
    in leaves and silver fleur-de-lys;
    because the birthday of my life
    is come, my love is come to me.

    (Christina Rosetti)

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  10. I think this one is lovely:

    The Master Speed, by Robert Frost

    No speed of wind or water rushing by
    But you have speed far greater. You can climb
    Back up a stream of radiance to the sky,
    And back through history up the stream of time.
    And you were given this swiftness, not for haste,
    Nor chiefly that you may go where you will,
    But in the rush of everything to waste,
    That you may have the power of standing still ?
    Off any still or moving thing you say.
    Two such as you with such a master speed
    Cannot be parted nor be swept away
    From one another once you are agreed
    That life is only life forevermore
    Together wing to wing and oar to oar.

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  11. Cycle of Life

    We are like Seeds
    Scattered on the field
    Without any control carried by the wind
    Rain came, buried our day
    And two days later, light dawns

    We spring forth and meet the sun
    Knowing all is well the rain is gone
    We grow each day taller and stronger
    Greeting the wind, enjoying the breeze
    We grow with love, nurtured by you
    No pain, only faith

    We gaze brightly with our innocent eyes
    The Sun and Moon teaches us
    That this is the Cycle of Life
    We embrace and sing

    We are like Seeds
    A beginning, a new moment
    Ever free to be, free to be eternity
    Ever growing, ever being
    This is the Cycle of Life

    Jiro Goh

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  12. Nature Notes by Louis MacNeice
    Dandelions

    Incorrigible, brash,
    They brightened the cinder path of my childhood,
    Unsubtle, the opposite of primroses,
    But, unlike primroses, capable
    Of growing anywhere, railway track, pierhead,
    Like our extrovert friends who never
    Make us fall in love, yet fill
    The primroseless roseless gaps.

    Cats

    Incorrigible, uncommitted,
    They leavened the long flat hours of my childhood,
    Subtle, the opposite of dogs,
    And unlike dogs, capable
    Of flirting, falling, and yawning anywhere,
    Like women who want no contract
    But going their own way
    Make the way of their lovers lighter.

    Corncrakes

    Incorrigible, unmusical,
    They bridged the surrounding hedge of my childhood,
    Unsubtle, the opposite of blackbirds,
    But, unlike blackbirds, capable
    Of anywhere they are endorsing summer
    Like loud men around the corner
    Whom we never see but whose raucous
    Voices can give us confidence.



    The Sea

    Incorrigible, ruthless,
    It rattled the shingly beach of my childhood,
    Subtle, the opposite of earth,
    And, unlike earth, capable
    Any time at all of proclaiming eternity
    Like something or someone to whom
    We have to surrender, finding
    Through that surrender life.

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  13. I third the Wallace Stevens recommendation. One of my favorites is The Idea of Order at Key West:

    It was her voice that made
    The sky acutest at its vanishing.
    She measured to the hour its solitude.
    She was the single artificer of the world
    In which she sang. And when she sang, the sea,
    Whatever self it had, became the self
    That was her song, for she was the maker. Then we,
    As we beheld her striding there alone,
    Knew that there never was a world for her
    Except the one she sang and, singing, made.

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  14. When You Are Old
    by William Butler Yeats

    When you are old and grey and full of sleep,
    And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
    And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
    Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;


    How many loved your moments of glad grace,
    And loved your beauty with love false or true,
    But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
    And loved the sorrows of your changing face;


    And bending down beside the glowing bars,
    Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
    And paced upon the mountains overhead
    And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.

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  15. Khalil Gibran has some great stuff and also Wendell Berry "The Country of Marriage"

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  16. This poem is lovely for a wedding:

    Harlem Night Song
    Langston Hughes

    Come,
    Let us roam the night together
    Singing.

    I love you.

    Across
    The Harlem roof-tops
    Moon is shining.
    Night sky is blue.
    Stars are great drops
    Of golden dew.

    Down the street
    A band is playing.

    I love you.

    Come,
    Let us roam the night together
    Singing.

    Thank you for such a wonderful blog. It's always so inspiring!
    M.

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  17. I love, love this blog. Thanks. I second "Snow" by Louis MacNiece, and maybe Paul Muldoon's poem to follow, the one that goes with it. & William Carlos Williams's love songs, with their little loaves of scent and clean dresses and let's run outside a-maying.

    So many beautiful poems! How will you choose? I would say Paul Durcan's "My Beloved Compares Herself to a Pint of Stout", but it's perhaps too long, a little too intimate ... Or Anna Akhmatova:

    Broad and yellow is the evening light
    Tender the April coolness
    You are so many years late,
    Nevertheless I am glad you came.

    Sit here close to me
    And look on joyfully:
    Here is a blue composition book
    With the poems of my childhood.

    Forgive me that I ignored the sun
    And that I lived in sorrow
    Forgive, forgive that I
    Mistook too many others for you.

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  18. somehwere i have never travelled,gladly beyond
    any experience,your eyes have their silence:
    in your most frail gesture are things which enclose me,
    or which i cannot touch because they are too near

    your slightest look easily will unclose me
    though i have closed myself as fingers,
    you open always petal by petal myself as Spring opens
    (touching skilfully,mysteriously)her first rose

    or if your wish be to close me,i and
    my life will shut very beautifully,suddenly,
    as when the heart of this flower imagines
    the snow carefully everywhere descending;

    nothing which we are to perceive in this world equals
    the power of your intense fragility: whose texture
    compels me with the colour of its countries,
    rendering death and forever with each breathing

    (i do not know what it is about you that closes
    and opens;only something in me understands
    the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses)
    nobody,not even the rain, has such small hands

    e.e.cummings

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  19. hi. i read rilke's [as once the winged energy of delight] at my sister's wedding 10 years ago. otherwise something wallace stevens? enjoy!

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  20. Tree Marriage

    by William Meredith

    In Chota Nagpur and Bengal
    the betrothed are tied with threads to
    mango trees, they marry the trees
    as well as one another, and
    the two trees marry each other.
    Could we do that some time with oaks
    or beeches? This gossamer we
    hold each other with, this web
    of love and habit is not enough.
    In mistrust of heavier ties,
    I would like tree-siblings for us,
    standing together somewhere, two
    trees married with us, lightly, their fingers barely touching in sleep, our threads invisible but holding.

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  21. Hi Lee, Many thanks for your constant inspiration. I am happy to contribute to what is already a queue of beautiful poetry!

    Broke Song (Later)
    by: Catherine Bowman

    You move through the world broken. Navigating
    by the stars encoded on your heart's axis. July
    grasses. Rain. How the world breaks us.
    Midnight scatters across what's left
    from an evening prayer. The broken
    song of the warbler at dawn
    on the last day of winter. You move
    through the world gathered
    together in a pulse. Running your fingers
    up and down what is odd and so familiar.
    How dazzling the fit. To be remade
    by the glue of your oaths and kisses.

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  22. HAVING A COKE WITH YOU

    is even more fun than going to San Sebastian, Irún, Hendaye, Biarritz, Bayonne
    or being sick to my stomach on the Travesera de Gracia in Barcelona
    partly because in your orange shirt you look like a better happier St. Sebastian
    partly because of my love for you, partly because of your love for yoghurt
    partly because of the fluorescent orange tulips around the birches
    partly because of the secrecy our smiles take on before people and statuary
    it is hard to believe when I'm with you that there can be anything as still
    as solemn as unpleasantly definitive as statuary when right in front of it
    in the warm New York 4 o'clock light we are drifting back and forth
    between each other like a tree breathing through its spectacles

    and the portrait show seems to have no faces in it at all, just paint
    you suddenly wonder why in the world anyone ever did them

    I look
    at you and I would rather look at you than all the portraits in the world
    except possibly for the Polish Rider occasionally and anyway it's in the Frick
    which thank heavens you haven't gone to yet so we can go together the first time
    and the fact that you move so beautifully more or less takes care of Futurism
    just as at home I never think of the Nude Descending a Staircase or
    at a rehearsal a single drawing of Leonardo or Michelangelo that used to wow me
    and what good does all the research of the Impressionists do them
    when they never got the right person to stand near the tree when the sun sank
    or for that matter Marino Marini when he didn't pick the rider as carefully
    as the horse

    it seems they were all cheated of some marvelous experience
    which is not going to go wasted on me which is why I am telling you about it

    —Frank O'Hara

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  23. One of my favorite things to read at weddings is the story of the Velveteen Rabbit-- a children's story about loving...

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  24. mary oliver writes beautiful and simple contemporary poetry about nature.

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  25. I second Annie Dillard....the most beautiful writing about nature and our place in the mystery of it..what a good idea lee...xxooLynnda

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  26. I do not love you as if
    you were salt-rose, or topaz,
    or the arrow of carnations
    the fire shoots off.
    I love you as certain
    dark things are to be loved,
    in secret, between
    the shadow and the soul.

    I love you as the plant
    that never blooms
    but carries in itself the
    light of hidden flowers;

    ....and there's a little more, but it's really good.
    ~Pablo Neruda

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  27. ALL HER LIFE

    I lay down for a nap. But every time I closed my eyes,
    mares' tails passed slowly over the Strait
    toward Canada. And the waves. They rolled up on the beach
    and then back again. You know I don't dream.
    But last night I dreamt we were watching
    a burial at sea. At first I was astonished.
    And then filled with regret. But you
    touched my arm and said, "No, it's allright.
    She was very old, and he'd loved her all her life."

    - RAYMOND CARVER

    'May the rivers of your life be always flowing at their fullest.'

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  28. I have been reading August Kleinzahler, Sleeping it off in Rapid City. His poems are about travel, real and imaginary, but they are also about love. I think you would like them. They are very beautiful.

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  29. Rememberance- Rainer Maria Rilke

    And you wait, keep waiting for that one thing
    which would infinitely enrich your life:
    the powerful, uniquely uncommon,
    the awakening of dormant stones,
    depths that would reveal you to yourself.

    In the dusk you notice the book shelves
    with their volumes in gold and in brown;
    and you think of far lands you journeyed,
    of pictures and of shimmering gowns
    worn by women you conquered and lost.

    And it comes to you all of a sudden:
    That was it! And you arise, for you are
    aware of a year in your distant past
    with its fears and events and prayers.

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  30. Sonnet 69 by Pablo Neruda

    Maybe nothingness is to be without your presence,
    without you moving, slicing the noon
    like a blue flower, without you walking
    later through the fog and the cobbles,

    without the light you carry in your hand,
    golden, which maybe others will not see,
    which maybe no one knew was growing
    like the red beginnings of a rose.

    In short, without your presence: without your coming
    suddenly, incitingly, to know my life,
    gust of a rosebush, wheat of wind:

    since then I am because you are,
    since then you are, I am, we are,
    and through love I will be, you will be, we'll be.

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  31. Manifesto by Windall Berry

    The most inspiring piece of poetry I have yet to read.

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  32. wislawa szymborska -

    she speaks about life
    with such a subtlety .

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  33. GORGEOUS!!!
    I really love your blog.

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